Likes with a note only
One switch and low-effort likes stop. Anyone who likes you has to say why.
DELHI NCR FIRST. OPEN TO EVERYWHERE.
Find your
Paire.
Every like comes with a note. Women set the rules. Men get a real shot. And seeing who likes you is free, forever.
18+ · Men & women · No caste filters, ever · Passes from ₹20, never auto-renewed
♫ Same playlist energy
A little spark. A real conversation.
One more story?That first-date feeling.
SPECIAL EDITION · NAVRATRI 2026 · 11–20 OCTOBER
Find your
Garba Paire.
Pick the nights you’re going to Garba or Dandiya. Paire shows you people dancing on the same nights, near you. Match before the first beat, meet in the circle.
- Pick your nightsUp to four, Night 1 to Dussehra. Change them anytime.
- See who’s going tooPeople near you on the same nights. Cards show how many you share, never which.
- Twirl, then talkPaire AI suggests an opener about your Garba night.
Free for everyone this Navratri. Needs your approximate location. Nobody sees which nights you picked. Meet in the crowd, and share your pass or group only once you’re comfortable.
YOUR NIGHTSIllustration
- Night 1Sun 11
- Night 2Mon 12
- Night 3Tue 13
- Night 4Wed 14
- Night 5Thu 15
- Night 6Fri 16
- Night 7Sat 17
- Night 8Sun 18
- Night 9Mon 19
- DussehraTue 20
🪔 Going on 2 of your Garba nights
Meera, 26
“Team Dandiya or team Garba circle? I need a partner who can keep up on Night 7 💃”
An illustration of the feature, not a real member.
01 / FEWER LIKES. BETTER ONES.
A like that
says something.
On most apps a like costs nothing, so it means nothing. On Paire, every like can carry a short note. It’s the first thing they read, and if you match, it opens your chat. No more “hi”.
Everyone gets 25 thoughtful likes a day, men and women alike. Women stop drowning in low-effort likes; men who put in effort finally get noticed.
Send your first sparkWHAT SHE SEESIllustration
Likes you · notes first
ARJUN LIKED YOU WITH A NOTE
“Your answer about Sunday chai at Lodhi Garden? I need your stall recommendation.”
An illustration of the feature, not a real member.
02 / HER RULES. FREE FOR EVERYONE.
Date on
your terms.
Privacy and control are safety features, and safety is never for sale. Designed around the problems Indian women report on dating apps, and available to every member.
I’ll message first
After a match, only you can send the first message. Your pace, from hello onwards.
Incognito
Only people you like can see you. A cousin or a colleague won’t stumble on your profile.
Private photos
Your photos stay hidden in discovery until you match. People meet your vibe first.
Same intentions only
Marriage-minded, long-term or still figuring it out: see only people who want what you want.
Basics up front
Height, languages, diet, education, drinking, religion (optional). Plus a free “speaks my language” filter. Never caste.
Real people
Live selfie check and human photo review, AI scam and abuse warnings in chat, report and block everywhere.
Live verification provider setup is in progress. A badge never guarantees someone’s conduct.Close kindly
Not feeling it? One tap sends a warm goodbye and ends the match. Closure beats ghosting.
03 / A DIFFERENT FIRST IMPRESSION
A vibe before
a verdict.
Looks catch your eye. A shared wavelength keeps you curious. In Vibe First, start with interests and intentions, then choose to reveal their photo.
No mystery points. No pressure to swipe. Just a little room to discover someone.
Explore Vibe FirstTRY THE FEELINGInteractive demo
What’s your kind of Sunday?
A LITTLE COMMON GROUND
Slow mornings.
Long conversations.
A café, a walk, and nowhere to rush.
An illustration of discovery, not a member profile or an AI compatibility prediction.
04 / A LITTLE HELP FINDING YOUR PEOPLE
Good chemistry.
Clear choices.
Paire’s matching starts with interests, dating intentions and what matters to you. An optional AI layer is designed to help spot common ground when both people opt in.
It uses selected profile choices, rather than your private messages. Suggestions are a conversation starter, never a promise of chemistry.
AI provider activation is pending · Basic matching works without it05 / FREE FIRST. FAIR ALWAYS.
Everything that
matters is free.
See who likes you, chat, privacy controls and verification are free forever. Paire Plus is a pass for more reach. It never auto-renews, and men and women pay the same.
FREE, FOREVER
₹0always
- 25 likes a day, with notes
- 1 Super Like a day
- See everyone who likes you
- Unlimited chat, Vibe first & Duos
- Every privacy & safety control
PAIRE PLUS · WEEK
₹99/ 7 days · about ₹14 a day
- 100 likes a day
- 5 Super Likes a day
- Priority likes: shown ahead of plain likes
- Age-gap filter: Silver Foxes & Cougars
- Ends by itself. No auto-renewal.
PAIRE PLUS · DAY OR MONTH
₹20/ 24 hours · try it
₹299/ 30 days · about ₹10 a day
The same Plus benefits, for a fraction of what the big apps charge.
06 / STRAIGHT ANSWERS
Questions, answered.
Is Paire free?
Yes. Everyone gets 25 likes a day with notes, 1 Super Like a day, unlimited chat, every privacy and safety control, and can see everyone who likes them, free. Paire Plus is an optional pass for more reach: ₹20 for a day, ₹99 for a week or ₹299 for a month. It never auto-renews, and men and women pay the same.
Is Paire safe for women?
Paire is built around women's control. Turn on notes-only likes so nobody can like you without saying why, choose “I'll message first”, go incognito so only people you like can see you, or keep your photos private until you match. Every chat has report and block, and Paire AI warns you about money, OTP and scam messages. All of it is free.
How is Paire different from Tinder, Bumble or Hinge?
On Paire every like can carry a note, so the first message is never just “hi”. Seeing who likes you is free, while Tinder and Bumble charge for it. Women get free controls like notes-only likes and incognito. Passes start at ₹20 and never auto-renew. And it is built for India: languages, height, diet and other basics, and never a caste filter.
Is Paire for casual dating or marriage?
Both. You choose what you're looking for: marriage-minded, long-term, something short-term, new friends or still figuring it out. Turn on “same intentions only” and you'll only see, and be seen by, people who want the same thing.
Does Paire have caste filters?
No, never. Religion is optional and shown only if you add it, and Paire never uses it to filter or rank anyone.
What is Garba Nights on Paire?
A free Navratri edition of Paire. Pick up to four nights you're going to Garba or Dandiya and meet people near you going on the same nights. Nobody sees which nights you picked, only how many you share. Paire AI can even suggest a Garba-themed opener once you match.
Which cities is Paire in?
Paire starts in Delhi NCR (Delhi, Noida, Gurugram, Faridabad and Ghaziabad) and is open to men and women across India.
Do I need to download an app?
No. Paire works in your phone or laptop browser at paire.in/app, with Google or email sign-in. The Android app is coming soon.
Who can join Paire?
Men and women aged 18 and over. Profiles are reviewed, reported accounts are hidden quickly, and accounts that offer or ask for money are removed.
DELHI, NOIDA, GURUGRAM & BEYOND
Your kind of person
is worth a hello.
Open Paire in your browser Beta · 18+ · Men & women · Made in India